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A few days ago, a friend and I took the taxi in New York, while getting off, the friend said to the driver: "Thanks, it is very comfortable to take your car. " This driver has heard distractedly and distractedly, then say: "Are you the underworld thoughtlessly? "
"No, the driver gentleman, I am not seeking you happy, I admire you and still can keep calm when the traffic is confused very much. "
"Yes! " As soon as the driver finished saying, the driver left by car.
"Why did you say so? " I ask not understanding.
" I want to let New York click human touch more, " He answers, " only so, this city can be cured. "
"How to do by your own's strength? "
"I just play a leading role. I believe a sentence of small and small praise can make that driver happy all day, if 20 passengers of year today of his, he will have kind and gentle attitude to 20 passengers of these, and these passengers are infected by driver, will be with a good-natured face to the people in the surrounding area. Can be regarded as like this, my good intention can be transmitted to more than 1000 people indirectly, it is good? "
"But how do you hope driver will do the taxi according to your idea? "
" I am hopeless, he, " The friend answers: "I know this way of doing things can be met and can't be asked, so I try hard to be more kind to people, praise others more, even only 30% of success rate of one day, but still can influence the amount of people 3000 relatedly. "
"Do I acknowledge this theory is very pleasant to the ear, but can have actual effects somewhat? "
"Even if I have no loss at all without result! Opening praise driver that for spend several second such as I, he can charge little odd tip either. If that person is unmoved, that is harmless, I can also praise another taxi driver tomorrow! "
"I think your head is a little innocent and ill. "
"Can find out you are more and more cold and detached from this. I have investigated the staff of the post office, they most feel depressed except that the salary is meagre, in addition is short of the affirmation that others work to them. "
"But their service is really very disappointing! "
"Service quality that no Welding Machine|Electric Welding Machine|Water Pump|PVC Hose|Hose Fittings|Laptop Batteries one takes notice of them that because they think that that is. Why do not we give them some more encouragement? "
We have a chat while walking, via a construction site, 5 workers are having lunch on one side. I friend stop step, " the building build very very fine, work of you must very much dangerous to work hard? " That group of worker's eyes with doubt looks at my friend.
"When to complete the project? " My friend continues askedding.
"June. " A worker is so low as to answer.
"Such outstanding achievement, you must regard as an honour very much. "
After leaving the building site, I say to him: "You this kind of people can list in the endangered animal too. "
"Perhaps these people will work more hard because of this sentence of mine, is this really a good thing to all persons? "
"What's the use of alone but only depend on you? You are just a little member of a nationality. "
"I tell oneself must not discouraged often, let the society simple thing originally, I can influence one on one, two can be on two "
"The woman's good looks that passed by just now is mediocre, did you still smile at her? " I interrupt and asked.
"Yes! I know, " He answer " if she pieces of teacher, I think today she people of course will certainly bathe in the spring breeze. "